Expecting a PCS?
Expecting a PCS move? Being a military spouse, I’ve had my fair share of moving with the military. It was always a stressful time for me. Getting the house clean, pre-packing items for the movers so they don’t break stuff, figuring out a travel route, getting the pets ready, ect. There’s always so much to do and so little time to get it all done. Not to mention that you’ll be moving to a new area that you’ve probably never been too before. And the entire time, you’ll probably need to feel like you need to keep it together for your spouse and for your family members (if any). Here I’ve cooked up some strategies to help you survive this stressful time.
First
There are going to be many new things at your new base and surrounding area. Start looking up things to do, places to eat, and place to visit. This will help you keep a more positive mindset by looking forward to all the new and exciting things you will get to experience.
Second
If you don’t have any friends or family in your new area, look up groups and activities in the area to help you create a support system. Many families in the area are going to have similar experiences and are going to have similar problems. Don’t let yourself be all alone in a new area.
Third
Embrace the change. New city, new culture. Out with the old and in with the new. When you get to your new area, immerse yourself in the local culture by going to new places and finding new experiences.
Forth
Be patient with yourself. Moving is no fun and I don’t know a single person that enjoys the process including myself. You’re going to be stressed, sad, angry, and happy (sometimes all at once) during this process. Be kind to yourself and know that you aren’t alone in the process.
Congrats (I hope) on the move! Even if it doesn’t go great, know that it’s okay and that you’re still going to live on. Enjoy your new area!!!
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